It turns out that in Dr. T-O's career she has never even been referred a stage 4 patient for reconstruction and that the Foothills hospital has never done a breast reconstruction on a metastatic breast patient! I did not realize this because I forget that I'm not perfectly standard but it turns out that I'm not :). So, my other doctors kept pushing me through the system to meet more people until I got to Dr. T-O (really liked her by the way). I think that they thought if she could meet me then I might have a chance and I think that I do. That's what we discussed, I mean, at the current time, she does not have her colleagues approval but I think that she's willing to perform a single reconstruction if she can get enough people on board. I've been referred to an anesthesiologist who, I assume, will have to decide if I'm hale enough for anesthesia and that extra hour under general slumber that reconstruction requires. Interestingly, I would be cleared to do a double mastectomy without reconstruction, weird huh? But there's a precedent for that and doctors rely on precedents just like lawyers.
In an ideal scenario I'd be able to get a double double as my mum calls it (double mastectomy with both breasts reconstructed using implants) but in this current realm I could settle for doing one now and the right one on the future when research catches up. Because I don't have cancer in both breasts the other isn't a necessity and doesn't merit the risk of infection and death on the operating table.
